We are now into the next election cycle in the United States. Campaigns for the 2020 presidential election are gearing up, money is being raised and positions are being staked out. It seems like it never ends, but even so, here we are.
This means that, as disputatious as the last two years have been, the next year and a half or so will likely be even worse.
As we enter this period in our nation's political life it would be good for those of us who engage in the to and fro of political debate with friends, family and acquaintances to keep in mind that there are more important things than proving ourselves right on this or that issue.
It would be good in the months ahead to keep in mind that those who disagree with us will not be won over to our way of seeing things if our demeanor is arrogant, scowling and angry. They certainly won't find our opinions compelling if we resort to insulting them or their ideas.
The most effective way to disagree in discussion is with a humble attitude, acknowledging to ourselves and to the other person that we could be wrong about whatever it is we are discussing. A winsome approach, full of humility and humor, is likely to be far more persuasive than pummelling one's interlocutor with polemical body blows.
In almost every instance, it'll be more important that we love the person we're engaged in conversation with than that we win an argument with them. After all, as an old aphorism has it, "A man convinced against his will is of the same opinion still."
If the other person gets angry and insulting then it's better that we change the subject to something less contentious. What good can come of continuing it under those circumstances anyway?
If we can love those with whom we disagree, when we can say, "I don't think you're correct, but you're more important to me than my being right," I think we'll be much more attractive to those who differ with us and much more effective in presenting our views and gaining them a hearing.
Political (and philosophical and religious) differences are important, in many cases extremely so, but they're not the most important thing. The most important thing is that we treat each other with dignity, respect and kindness.
Our politicians probably won't treat each other that way, but we should.
